End of An Era; or A Reintroduction

Started by Sedition and Pockets, August 11, 2019, 16:37:01 PM

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Sedition and Pockets

I have spent half a lifetime on the run, almost four decades—38 years—of headlong flight from a fact about myself that for most of my life, I couldn't even articulate, and then couldn't bring myself to accept.  I lived in ignorance, in denial, and finally, in hiding.  In those years I pursued every remedy, tried to fill the gaping hole in the middle of my life with everything, except the one thing that might have made the pain stop.  I came to feel like I'd spent life shackled to the corpse of a stillborn child, trapped in a body that had never drawn a breath.  And secrets are a heavy burden to bear.  So I ran, and I kept on running.

Fishing has been, for me, the one consistent solace in my existence.  When I'm on the water, the pain and confusion and the noise in my head melt away for a little while. I can have peace.  I can live for a minute, and not feel the weight of the secrets, the fears, the regrets, or the ghost of the child-that-never-was.  The fish don't care, so for a little while, I don't have to, either.  So, for the last ten years, I've fished like my life depended on it, and, in a way it did.  Every year since 2009, I've been on water at least 120 days, and in some years that figure has approached 200. 

I don't think I'll make that this year.  I've stopped running.  I've finally found the strength to make peace with myself, and for the medium term future I am likely to be busy taking care of the things I need to do to move on with my life the way I might have done had I never gone on the run to begin with.  There's been so much wasted time, and so my sense of urgency is quite high.  I just haven't had the time to devote fishing lately that I'm accustomed to, and that may remain the new normal while my life is in transition.  I have squeezed in a little time here and there this summer, and I'll leave you with a little peek at what I've been up to when I can make it to the water.  I expect this to be a bit of a last hurrah for now.  I'll be back though, just maybe in a somewhat different guise.

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Cheers y'all!

Dylar

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Dougfish

"Why don't you knock it off with them negative waves? Why don't you dig how beautiful it is out here?
 Why don't you say something righteous and hopeful for a change? "
Kelly's Heroes,1970

"I don't wanna go to hell,
But if I do,
It'll be 'cause of you..."
Strange Desire, The Black Keys, 2006

Sedition and Pockets


Al

Damn, that into could have been written by any of us! Welcome back.

Stone-Man

Good post -- We all have had our moments of being lost and glad you are willing to post this which is good for you to get off your shoulder.  Damn shame that when you lived in Charlotte   -- we did not meet up and do some high octane bluegill/shellcracker fishing on Mtn. Island.  Thanks for the great post  !!

  JT

Phil

Peace, Dylar. The waters you return to will invite you back with their ancient, patient, and wise acceptance.